The burden of Perfect – Letting Go to Get Going

As a journey partner, I've seen countless people, professionals and fathers alike, hit a roadblock that has nothing to do with their talent or their dedication. It's the silent, heavy weight of perfectionism. We're taught from a young age to strive for flawlessness, but the truth is, the pursuit of being "perfect" often robs us of the joy of our progress and the power of our persistence. Often, the joy of just getting going and getting something done is the actual pursuit. The path to leaving a lasting legacy isn't a straight, clean line – it's a winding trail with bumps, detours, and moments of self-doubt.

"I am not a product of my circumstances. I am a product of my decisions."

~ Stephen Covey ~

Think about it: a perfect journey would mean never making a mistake, never having a bad day at work, and never feeling like you've fallen short as a parent. But this ideal is not only unrealistic; it's also unfulfilling. When we demand perfection from ourselves, we are paralysed by the fear of failure – will it ever be as perfect as we imagine it will be? We hesitate to start a new project, we get stuck on minor details, and we become our own harshest critics. True resilience isn't about avoiding the fall; it's about finding the courage to get back up, dust yourself off, and keep moving forward. That's the real lesson our children will remember.

Instead of chasing a flawless outcome, I encourage my clients to embrace the mindset of persistence over perfection. This means celebrating the small victories along the way. It’s about being proud of the fact that you showed up today, even if you’re not at your best. It’s about learning from a mistake, instead of letting it define you. This shift in perspective is the foundation of mental toughness—the ability to find strength in vulnerability and to see setbacks not as an ending but as a crucial part of the process.

This is what a true journey partner helps you with – I provide the space and the practical tools to help you identify the areas where perfectionism is holding you back. Together, we create actionable strategies for overcoming it. By focusing on building consistent, healthy habits that are sustainable, we can ensure this is not just for a week, but for a lifetime.

When you release the need to be perfect, you're not giving up on your goals; you're simply giving yourself permission to be human. This is where your authentic strength, your real legacy, begins to shine through.

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